On tipping.

I tip once for the Starbucks people, if they're not grateful or not even a thank you, I remember them and they get none thereafter. Outstanding service calls for outstanding tipping. If he/she's an ass to be expect an ass tipper in return. I hate doing it, but we can't reward servers who are indignant, think they are entitled, or are rude because of something they messed up. I'm always nice, but don't give me attitude. I would know I used to be a server and am still one. All actors are or were if they had to make a living at one point in their lives. Once, when I was younger, I tipped a girl $5 froma like $7.85 or something tab and I hid it under the receipt for her to find as a really nice surprise later. And when I said bye to her, what did she do? She looked at me and looked at the table then turned to me and gave me a dirty look like I put my finger up her but while she was talking to a customer or something. I wanted to make a big scene and pull her over and show her and then take the money and put it in my pocket and tell her, "this is what you could have had, and now you're getting what you deserve." But I didn't, I was too nice back then. Moral of the story, men, don't let women walk all over you. There are some out there who are nasty. Lok for the good ones, they are rare.